We all have faced situations when our ex-partner keep messing up with our current relationship and we actually think of giving them a second chance. You must have seen a lot of relatable examples in your friend circle and seen your friends going back to their exes. But what makes them do that? Why do they give them a second chance? There could be plenty of reasons but before giving them a second chance, you must keep few things in mind, and what are those things? Here in this article, we’ll be talking about the things you should concentrate in before going back to your ex. Keep reading to know more about it.
Here are the things you must keep in mind before giving your ex a second chance. Take a look!
1. Do you still feel something for her?
Do you really wanna go back to her because you have realized that life without her is empty or you stalked her on FB and found that she has uploaded some good pictures? Ask these questions to yourself.
2. What was the reason for your breakup?
There can be several reasons for your breakup but you need to understand the major reason before going back.
3. Why do you want her back?
If you have the clear reason in your head then there is no harm in going back. You may be tired of being single or could be missing the company of a girl, there could be plenty of reasons but make sure you know what you are going to do.
4. Try to understand if they really want you back or not
Don’t go by words. When they asked you for a second chance, try to analyze the reasons behind it. What if they want to take advantages of you?
5. How serious was your relationship
Was your previous relationship any serious or you two were just fooling around? If it wasn’t serious then there is no point of going back.
6. Do you still have trust issues?
A lot of things might have changed after the breakup and you can’t really say if your old partner still trusts your or not. Do keep these trust related things in mind before giving a second chance.
7. Try to know about her post break up life
What did she do after the breakup? What changes did it make in her life? Kee these things in mind before giving her a second chance.
8. Can you too adjust again?
This is something you should be able to figure out in one or two meetings.
9. How comfortable you two are now?
If you two aren’t comfortable with each other and things have changed between you guys, then you shouldn’t give a second chance.
So, these are the major things you need to keep in mind before giving your ex a second chance. If you would like to add some more points, do write it in the comment section.