Love can make people do crazy things. Have you heard about the Chinese man proposed to his girlfriend by buying 99 iPhone’s in order to impress her? Needless to say that things didn’t go well for him, but it was a happy day for Apple! Or that skydiving proposal that almost went wrong! Sometimes gestures of love seem cheesy or forced, but if your man does any of the following, it means that he REALLY loves you.
1. Smooch After Smooch!
Your lips are 100 times more sensitive than the tips of your fingers and passionate kissing burns 6.4 calories per minute! So if your man keeps kissing you over and over again, regardless of where you two are, it means that he REALLY loves you! Either that or he wants to skip cardio at the gym. Men love to show off their woman and the connection they have in public by kissing. They also seem to be unable to control themselves, so essentially, more kisses mean more love.
2. Slap It, Squeeze It, Shake It, Kiss It
Before you call the police, no…we aren’t talking about domestic violence (that’s the complete opposite of love!). If he truly loves you, he probably loves all of you. That includes your body as well. If he loves you, he’ll never stop smacking your tushie. He will grab it, squeeze it, shake it and kiss it whenever he gets the chance! This is his way of showing how much he is in love with your body.
3. The Chest
You’re your man’s woman and he’s your man. He will feel comfortable around you and putting his head into your chest (close to your heart) will make him feel safe and at home. There is no better feeling in the world than your man lying down with his head on your breasts as he lets all of his worries and stress flow away. He loves you, he trusts you.
4. The “Bada Bing Bada Boom” in the Bedroom
The sex is great. If your man loves you, he will make sure to show it in the bedroom. Ladies, prepare to have the best night of your lives, every night. The more you get turned on, the more HE will get turned on and reciprocate. If your man can satisfy you in bed, he’s a keeper.
5. The Sexy Fantasies
Communication is the key for any great relationship. If your significant other loves you, he will trust you with his darkest kinks and fantasies (who knows, maybe you might even enjoy a few). When someone opens up to you without any hesitation, and trust you, they are insanely in love with you.
6. He Stays Behind After Sex
How many times have you seen this happen? After a great night of passionate sex, the man gets up and goes his way.
While we’re not condoning one night stands, we feel they don’t truly represent “love”. If that was the case we’d call it “making love” instead of just casual sex. If your partner stays with you after you two are finished, pulls you closer and embraces you, it probably means that he really loves you.
7. Real Manners
Finally, if your man makes sure that you “finish” before him, then ladies, never let him go. Allowing you to finish before he does, signifies that he is kind, selfless and wants to take care of your needs more than he cares about his own. Men like this are really hard to find and are often found after searching for a really really long time.
7.1 He’ll Hold Your Things
Regardless of your man does for a living, or where he stands in society, they do not want to be seen as someone weak or submissive. If they start holding your things for you, like your purse, they really don’t care how other men see them as because they’re already filled up with love for you that takes leaves no space for other worries or concerns!
7.2 He’ll Shop for Your Womanly Needs
If your man loves you, you could ask them for anything your heart desires. They don’t care about looking weak or uncomfortable. They only want you to be happy and if it means that he has to feel a little awkward, then he’ll be willing to do anything for you.
7.3 He Remembers the Little Things
When your man truly cares about you, he will remember the most minute detail. The way you like your coffee, the way you like to be kissed, the way you like to be touched. He remembers these things because you’re his goddess, and he loves the living hell out of you!
7.4 He Makes Sacrifices for Your Happiness
You’re his goddess remember? It only makes sense that your man will make sacrifices for his goddess. If you want to try something in bed that he particularly doesn’t like, he’ll bite the bullet and make sure that you’re satisfied…because he LOVES YOU!
7.5 He Things You’re Beautiful When You Aren’t
Does your man stick around even after you wake up with that horrible “bed face”? Does he kiss you BEFORE you brush your teeth and makes you that coffee while you scratch your butt? Ladies! HE LOVES YOU! He’s a keeper!
7.6 He Opens Himself Up in front of You!
When your man really REALLY loves you, he will allow his defenses to drop in front of you. He’ll let you probe his weaknesses. For men, an emotional armor is necessary and for your man to take it off and let you inside, it’s a BIG deal! Ladies, he’s a rare one, so don’t let him go!
7.7 He Listens to What You Say
When you give him instructions for what you need to “satisfy” yourself in bed, and he listens, he truly loves you! He’s becoming a “fan boy” and will absorb anything you say!